Kweminye, inyanga kaDisemba ngumlingo, ubukhulu becala ngenxa yeholide. Kodwa kuwe, kubonakala ngathi kuya kudlula oku. Nika ingqalelo kwabanye into abayenzayo, landela ukhokelo lwabo xa uziva kulungile kwaye uvukele kubo xa ixesha lifikile.
ungayiphumelela njani indoda ebukhali
Kodwa nantoni na oyenzayo, jonga okukujikelezileyo kuba yindlela oya kuthi ngayo ukwazi ukubamba okuninzi okuzayo kuwe, ngokwamathuba, kule nyanga.
Lumkela impilo kuba uxinzelelo lusenokwenzeka ukuba ludlula phakathi kweentanda ozishiya qho xa usebenza nzima okanye uzive ukhululekile. Kukho okuninzi okunokubakho, ukuthetha ngobuchwephesha, kwabanye kodwa kukwakho nexabiso lokuhlawula oko.
Abanye baya kugxila ngakumbi kubumoya kwaye nangona bengayi kuba yimfuneko ukuba babe nesisa ngakumbi kunye nokuqonda, into ebebeyilindele kwasekuqaleni, baya kuba befunde isifundo esibaluleke ngakumbi esiza kuzityhila kamva.
Amanye amathandabuzo ukuqala ngawo
Okukhona uxinzelelo malunga nento enokwenzeka kokukhona iya kuziva ngathi ilandela yonke into oyenzayo kwimeko nganye oyenzayo yezicwangciso zakho. Kwabanye abantu, inokuba inento yokwenza ne-hypochondria yabo eyaziwayo ngelixa abanye, isuselwe kwithemba labo.
Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, into ethi, ngendlela, kufuneka uyisombulule, okubaluleke kakhulu kukuba ufumane iindlela zokoyisa oku.
Unqabile ukumamela ingcebiso yabo bakungqongileyo, nokuba bakusapho okanye emsebenzini, nokuba kungenxa yokuba ungakholelwa ukuba banokukuqonda okanye bamane ngenxa yenkani.
Ngaphandle kweengozi oku kubangela nakweyiphi na EyoKwindla Iphulo eliqhutywa lixesha onokuba nalo kwezi ntsuku, linokukubuyisela umva ngendlela ozijonga ngayo kunye nobuchule bakho.
Ekukhanyeni
Malunga ne-10th, into inokuza kukuhlangula, uhlobo oluthile lwesiqendu somsebenzi apho uya kuba yinkwenkwezi kunye nabanye, ngokunokwenzeka umntu onegunya ojonge kuye, baya kuyibona imisebenzi yakho.
Kwabanye abantu bemveli, oku kunokuguqulela kwi ibhaso lemali ngelixa ezinye ziya kubekwa kwindawo ebonakalayo okwangoku. Kodwa akunandaba nokuba ukweliphi na icandelo, ukuqondwa kwenqanaba eliphezulu kuya kukunceda uqhubeke kwezinye iingcinga.
Thintela ii-clichés kunye neminye imigaqo esekwe kuba kubonakala ngathi phakathi kulenyanga awuvunyelwe kuphela kodwa uphembelelwe ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba uphume kwindawo yakho yokuthuthuzela kwaye ungazami into entsha kodwa into engazange yenziwe ngokoqobo ngaphambili.
Yintoni enye onokuyenza
Iintsuku ezikhokelela kwi-18thUya kugcwele ngumsebenzi endlini kwaye uya kuziva uluncedo kakhulu. Hlanganisa oku kunye nokugcwala kwindawo ebonakalayo emva kweso siqendu somsebenzi kwaye awuyi kuvumela naziphi na izimvo ezixhalabisayo okanye ezimbi ukuba zikukhathaze.
Mhlawumbi kuya kuba luncedo ukudibana nabahlobo bakho kwaye uthathe naziphi na izithembiso zentlalontle phambi kweholide. Ngamanye amaxesha, uya kuthi Zonwabise ngokwenyani ngelixa kwabanye, ngokwendalo, awuyi kuziva ngokwenyani efanayo.
Izinto ezothusayo ezincinci ezivela kubantu ongakhange uzibone okwethutyana zinokuvela ebomini bakho. Kananjalo, abanye kuya kufuneka bahambe ukubuyisa ubabalo kodwa oku kungangamava olonwabo, xa ukwinkampani elungileyo.
Iingxaki zesiko
Kubonakala ngathi uza kufundiswa isifundo esibalulekileyo kulenyanga, into enento yokwenza nexesha lokuphila kwakho kunye nemizuzu evela kubo bonke abantu kunye nendlela ekufuneka usabele ngayo.
Ayinguye wonke umntu onxibelelanisiweyo ukuze onwabe kwaye anelise ngaxeshanye okanye ukhathazeke kwaye uneengxaki kwangaxeshanye.
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Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kubakho la maxesha apho umntu akwiliza eliphezulu ngelixa uphantsi okanye ngokuchaseneyo.
Kodwa esi ayisosizathu sokuba nenqala okanye umona kunye nabo okanye ukuba baziphathe kakubi kwaye bakuthathele konke xa kwenzeka okwahlukileyo.
Ukuba uyakwazi ukushiya ezo mvakalelo zokudideka ecaleni, ngakumbi namalungu osapho, uya kufumana indlela elula yokuhamba ngeli xesha leeholide. Uyazi, ngelo xesha xa wonke umntu eqala ukuxelela into abebeye kuyo kwaye nendlela obuhle ngayo ubomi babo.