Nokuba ujonge kweliphi icala, kule yoMdumba iya kuba yinyanga yokukhetha kunye nokuhlala phakathi kokugqithileyo. Kwaye izinto azikho nesiqingatha esimangalisayo njengoko ucinga ukuba zinjalo.
Umsebenzi uhlala ixesha elininzi kwaye emva koko uphela uzibeka uxinzelelo olukhulu ngokubhekisele kukhetho oluncinci, njengokwenza ntoni kwisidlo sangokuhlwa okanye yeyiphi eyona ndlela yokuphumla.
Kwaye ukonyusa iingxaki, uya kuthanda ukufihla malunga nento oyenzayo, nokuba kungabikho sizathu sibonakalayo. Ewe, unokucinga ukuba oku kuya kuhla njani nosapho lwakho, ngakumbi kunye neqabane lakho.
Kungenzeka ukuba ucebisa isimanga kwaye nokuba awukho, kungcono ulumkiswe ukuba balindele into.
Ukusebenza kakuhle
Ngexesha leveki yokuqala enyangeni uza kufumana iindlela ezintsha zokuzilungiselela ngokukhawuleza kodwa oku kuya kulungelelanisa ixesha lakho lasimahla, hayi umnqweno wakho wokusebenza.
Kodwa akufuneki ulibale ukuba wonke umntu ufuna ukutotywa amaxesha ngamaxesha kwaye abantu abaninzi bayayifumana kumzuzu omncinci abanawo kusasa.
Ke kulumkele ukusebenza ngokukuko, ngakumbi ngaphandle kwesizathu esithile kunye nokususa imikhwa ekuncedayo ukuba ufumane umoya omtsha. Ukucamngca isenokungabi yinto yakho kodwa nkqu nalo msinga weengcinga kunye nemibuzo ozibekayo yona inokubala njengokunxibelelana nawe.
Olunye ulwazi olufumanayo kwimpelaveki yokuqala luya kukwenza uzimisele ngakumbi namanye amalungu osapho lwakho.
Ixesha elinzima lokuphendula, ixesha elinzima lokuphendula
Into oyenzayo, okanye okunokwenzeka, into oyithethayo ayizukuphela iyanconywa ngabaphathi bakho ngenxa yoko kufuneka ulumke ngazo naziphi na iimeko ezinokuphakamisa ishiya. Kwaye akunyanzelekanga nokuba ibe yinto engenambeko.
EyoKwindla ayikuncedisi ukuba uzenze uqondwe. Kwangelo xesha, umntu osebenza naye unokuhlala ejonge kuwe kwaye angahleba malunga nento oyenzayo.
Oku kuthethiwe, imeko ozama ukuyenza ngeyona ndlela inokwenzeka ukuze uguquke kwintlekele kwangoko.
Oku kungasentla akufuneki ukuba ukubeke ecaleni kuyo nayiphi na imizamo yokwenza izinto ezingadlalwanga ziincwadi. Kuya kufuneka ulwe notyekelo lokuya kwicala elahlukileyo.
Kwaye xa sithetha ngokuchaseneyo, uyazi indlela abathi bayatsala, ewe, unokufumana into enomdla kakhulu malunga noku malunga ne-10th.
Ukuhlala phakathi kwezinto ezigabadeleyo
Isiqingatha sesibini senyanga siza kuza nemibuzo emitsha kunye neengxaki ekungekho mntu ubonakala ekwazi ukuziphendula. Kwaye ungacingi ukuba le yinto ecaphukisayo kuba ayisiyiyo le nto.
Umzuzu omnye ugcwele ithemba kwaye ucinga ngezinto zakho kwaye okwesibini, zonke iintlobo zeengcinga zingena kwaye uzive ngathi kukho isidingo sokwenza isigqibo kuloo ndawo.
Unokuba nexhala malunga ikamva elikude kodwa oku akufuneki kukuthintele ekujonganeni nemisebenzi enokuchaphazela ixesha elifutshane.
Igama leengcebiso, ngaphaya kwako konke oku kungasentla, kukungazihlehlisi naziphi na iintlanganiso okanye naluphi na uphando olunokucacisa enye yehashe engqondweni yakho. Uhlala ukhathazekile kodwa ukhetha ukungazenzi ezo ngcinga, nokuba imeko ibonakala ivula uhlobo oluthile lwesango kwisityhilelo.
Ukuqhekeka
Nangona phakathi enyangeni unokuziva ngathi uwedwa kwaye akukho mntu uyakufumana, njengokuba sisondela esiphelweni sikaFebruwari, ungaqala ukuqonda ukuba ubajongela phantsi abo bakungqongileyo.
Akukho nto ikhethekileyo izakwenzeka, akukho nto iya kukungqina ukuba umntu othile ucinga ngawe okanye uzama ukuqonda ukuba uhlangabezana nantoni kodwa kuzakubakho imvakalelo emnandi ngeenxa zonke. Ezi zinokukunceda ukuba ugqithise ezo ngcinga kwaye uvumele ezinye izinto zibekho.
Usuku olunethamsanqa, i-28th, Kwabemi abathile abanokufumana ithuba lokuhamba okanye ubuncinci batshintshe ubuhle beeyure ezimbalwa.
