Umntu othile unamazwi angaphezulu kokuthetha ngawe kwaye kubonakala ngathi oku kuyakujika kube lithuba lolunye uhlobo kulo Disemba. Sukujonga ujonge okanye ungathi ulinde into eza kwenzeka, nangona kunjalo. Lonwabele ixesha lakho lasimahla, ngakumbi elichithwe nosapho lwakho.
Ufumana ithuba lokuzonwabisa ngakumbi ngesiqu sakho, kungekuphela xa kufikwa kwimikhwa emibi kodwa kwanakwinkcitho. Ukuba usebenze nzima ebudeni bonyaka, kwaye mhlawumbi ungoyena mntu ubalaseleyo ukulinganisa oku, ke ungabi nazintloni xa kufikwa ekuthengeni izipho.
Abanye abantu basekhaya banokuzifumana bekwimeko yothando, kunye nomntu onomdla othimba ingqalelo yabo. Bayacetyiswa ukuba banganyanzelisi kakhulu kuba isenokungabi lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba bathathe amanyathelo kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka baxhomeke kolo nxibelelwano lutsha.
Nabanye
Iintsuku zokuqala ezimbalwa ziya kuchithelwa ikakhulu kusapho lwakho, njengeentsuku zokugqibela ukuze oku kube ngathi sisangqa sohlobo oluthile. Kuya kufuneka ulingise oku kweminye imisebenzi yakho kwaye uzame ukugqiba into oyiqalayo.
Kungenzeka ukuba ngamanye amaxesha unomdla kakhulu kwezinye izinto kwaye ulahlekelwe ngumkhondo wexesha okanye nendima yakho kule meko. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka ngelixa wena sebenza kwiqela , oku kungakhokelela kwiingxoxo, ezinye zazo ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe uzonwabele.
Kukwalindeleke ukuba ezinye iinzame zakho zaziwe kwaye isixa semali, uhlobo oluthile lwebhonasi ekufuneka lubhekiswe kuwe. Nangona esi sisizathu sokonwaba, unokuziva uxinzelelo, ngakumbi ngokubhekisele kwinto onokuyenza ngayo, ngokunikwa ithuba lonyaka.
Ukuziqhelanisa nokutsha
Kwaye xa oku kusenzeka, kufuneka uzikhumbuze ukuba uyinkosi kwizigqibo zakho kwaye nangona abanye bengazukuvuya, ukuba ngabasapho, baya kuqonda. Kwaye xa uthetha ngabanye, awunguye ukwamkela nabantu ongabaziyo nabakhetha ukuhlala kummandla wakho wentuthuzelo.
Malunga ne-10th, ukujika okungalindelekanga kweziganeko kuya kukufumana usebenze ngaphezulu kokufuna kodwa nangona oku, uhlala ufumana into entle. Kwakhona, ithuba lokufumana izizathu zokubhiyozela njengabahlobo bakho ziya kuvuleka ngakumbi kunesiqhelo ukuphuma kwiqela elikhulu, elilungelelanisiweyo.
Kodwa ungazikhohlisi ukuba uyakholisa okanye ungumququzeleli omkhulu kuba phakathi enyangeni, ungangqinwa ngokuchaseneyo, njengoko EyoKwindla amanyathelo ukubonakalisa ukuba yintoni enokuyenza.
Ukudinwa
Njengoko i-18thIyasondela, uya kuziva ngathi umntu uchasene nawe kwaye uyakrokrela abantu abaninzi. Umntu oya kusokola kakhulu koku mhlawumbi liqabane lakho. Tone le phantsi ngoba nokuba izivamvo zakho zichanekile, ngekhe ubonakalise nantoni na.
Ukuba umntu othile uzama ukukujongela phantsi, bakwenza ngendlela ehlakaniphileyo kwaye kuyakuthatha ixesha ukuyityhila, ixesha oya kuthi uthathelwe ingqalelo ngalo eyona idrama. Cinga ngeshishini lakho kuba kuphela ngokugxila kwinto onokuyenza kakuhle yindlela oyisa ngayo nantoni na.
Ngaphandle kwalokhu, izinto ezenzekayo ziya kukugcina uxakekile malunga namaxesha eKrisimesi ukuze ngexesha leeholide usenokudinwa kakhulu kukunandipha ukubhiyozela nantoni na. Abo bahamba ngalo msitho kufuneka balumke ezindleleni, ngakumbi ukuba badiniwe.
Ukuba namagama malunga nawe
Ngelixa abanye banokulungiselela uNyaka oMtsha, ukhetha ukuhlawula abaphathi kunye nokuyalela abantu ngqo. Kodwa kubonakala ngathi unezakhono zobunkokeli kwaye uninzi luya kuphulaphula. Isenokubangelwa kukuba uvakala usomeleza ngokwenyani.
Kodwa ungacingi ukuba ungathatha ithuba loku ngaphaya kokuba mzuzu uzama ukuba ngobuqhophololo, yonke into iyakuyeka ukusebenza. Ingaphezulu kwe- Umbuzo wekarma kunye nenjongo ozama ukuyenza.
Unxibelelwano lwalo lonke uhlobo luyaxhamla mhlawumbi eli ayizukuba lixesha elibi lokungena unxibelelane nabantu ongakhange uthethe nabo ixeshana. Akukho sidingo sokuvuselela uhlobo oluthile lobudlelwane, zama nje ukuba ulungile kwaye uthethe into ngaphezulu kokukwazisa kunye neeholide ezimyoli.
